Ordained: 2020
Family: Wife, Linda
Profession: Police Commander (retired from Cary PD). Adjunct College Professor at Campbell University
Home parish: St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church, Cary, NC
Assigned parish: St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church, Cary, NC
Hobbies: Traveling, fishing, shooting, helping others
When did you first consider a vocation to the permanent diaconate?
When I was at the police department, I was put in charge of revamping our Chaplain’s Program. While doing so, I thought this would be something I could give back to my agency after I retired. That was about five years before I retired, or around 2005. I am currently a chaplain at the Cary Police Department along with my duties as a deacon at St. Michael’s.
What is your favorite part of being a deacon?
Being with people when they need the Church. Helping people to understand what they need from the church and helping them attain that, whether it is the baptism of a child, a marriage, the funeral of a loved one, etc., or just someone to talk through a situation with.
What would you say to someone considering the permanent diaconate?
Do your homework and understand what is going to be expected of you. Pray for guidance and make sure you have the support of your family. Find a current deacon to talk to now and during your discernment process.
What surprised you the most about the permanent diaconate?
The responsibility you are given and trusted with is amazing. It is an awesome feeling to be there for our community and help any way that I can.
What is the most joyful revelation you’ve had about the diaconate since your ordination?
I love distribution of the body, blood, soul, and divinity of Jesus at the Eucharist and seeing children approach that have yet to receive their First Holy Communion and to be able to bless them.
What is your favorite scripture passage?
Genesis 1:1 through Revelation 22:21 – I find it all wonderfully eye opening.
Who is your favorite saint and why?
St. Michael the Archangel, as he is the patron saint of law enforcement and has protected me for many years.
Is there anything else you want people to know about you or the diaconate?
A deacon is a great person to get to know as we know our parish and our community because most of us have been in our parish for a long time. We can direct you to help you get the most out of your faith. I think it is important for people to also understand that the ordination into the diaconate is not just given to those who think they would like to serve. You apply, are vetted, tested, and educated with one full year of discernment and five years of formal education.