Ordained: 2014
Family: Wife: Mary Beth; adult children: Kevin and Jean; siblings: one sister and two brothers
Profession: Chemical engineer and Environmental, Health and Safety professional (retired); Now: teacher and lifeguard, part-time only
Home parish: St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church, Cary, NC
Assigned parish: St. Michael the Archangel Catholic Church, Cary, NC
Hobbies: Swimming, hiking, reading, and historical re-enacting
When did you first consider a vocation to the permanent diaconate?
In my early 20’s I felt I was being called to the priesthood. The permanent diaconate was in its infancy, and there were no deacons in my diocese at that time. I followed that initial call, and God made it clear to me that I was not to be a priest. I realized many years later that that call was to the permanent diaconate.
What is your favorite part of being a deacon?
Being able to serve God by serving his people. To be a part of the families of others, just for a little while. To be able to share in their joys and gladness, their sorrows and their losses. It allows me to see the true family of God.
What would you say to someone considering the permanent diaconate?
It is a great experience, but God doesn’t call everyone to the diaconate. Explore and see if you do have a call. Spend some time in prayer and in front of the Blessed Sacrament to discern. If you are not being called, there are many ways to serve God using your baptismal charge. If you are being called, it will happen.
What surprised you the most about the permanent diaconate?
That it is not me performing the ministry. You are an instrument in the hands of God.
What is the most joyful revelation you’ve had about the diaconate since your ordination?
Every day is a joy and a new adventure. God has given many, many wonderful opportunities to serve others.
What is your favorite scripture passage?
From the 46 Psalm, “Be still and know that I am God”
Who is your favorite saint and why?
There are a lot of saints to admire, but mine has to be Patrick. We have a lot in common. I have done archaeological work on a site that may be his birthplace, and it’s less than 10 miles from where my mother was born. I also have a first-degree relic of St. Patrick.